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Aminals.

April 21st, 2011

4/18/11

And now a minute to introduce you to the animals we’ve encountered! Some are not so local, some are just here for the breeding program at the farm inn, and some are just totally everywhere.

This is just my best friend Anthony the Cheetah

Anthony is at the Farm Inn, and here’s what else they have.

Chickens are EVERYWHERE, here. and apparently, they sleep in trees.

Blue Wildebeeast ... all over Africa.

 

These giraffes are the smallest kind... but they really just look like they're on stilts when they walk. So awkwardly graceful.

Yeah check out the carnage. The tigers here are part of the breeding program, but this one is unfortunately infertile

There's two of these tigers, and they're still growing. But they are completely playful.

 

 Tiger fact: Tigers rely on stealth so they only go after prey that has turned its back. In some places, people have started wearing masks on the backs of their heads to confuse the tigers. Tiger-deaths dropped drastically in these places!

This white lion is basically the redhead of lions. It's a recessive gene. Mothers reject white lions :/

Besides the Farm Inn, we also visited Pilanesberg, which is a huge natural setting for animals. We saw ostriches, rhinos, lions (mating!), and springbok… but my favourite is actually the impala:

You can tell the male from the female by the M on the male's butt

seriously!

And then around the township, you sometimes see this:

and then:

Yeah. My brother got me one of those hats from China. Viva la Africa!

Juice, It’s “Serious” Stuff

April 21st, 2011

I’ve become accustom to the fact that I often have to ask my South African friends to repeat themselves or to explain something that I don’t understand. I have also learned that juice is not something to take lightly as anything below 100% juice is simply unacceptable. So when I was told that we needed to pick up some “serious” juice I assumed that they meant some seriously good stuff.

Much to my surprise, this is what we bought.

4/18 Thoughts from Connor

April 21st, 2011

Today we went to Pilanesberg Game Park for a safari. It took 2 hours to get there, and it was like traveling through never ending farm land.

Once we got there, it reminded me Las Vegas. “Sun City”, the Las Vegas of South Africa because it has hotels, game drives, entertainment, restaurants, and attractions.

The safari that we took was 3 hours long. Our driver told us that if a composition book was all of the land for safari, we only covered about a 1 inch square, AND IT WAS BIG!

We saw: Lions, Blue Wildebeests, Gray Go-Away Birds, White Rhinos, Elephants, Springbok, Ostriches and Impala.

Did you know that rhinos can only move forward?

Once the safari was over, we took the 2 hour drive home. It was a pretty good day.

Best part of the day: going on safari.

Township Life

April 21st, 2011

People often ask me what life is like in the township of Mamelodi. Words fail me ever time. I cannot begin to explain what I cannot begin to understand. With each trip to South Africa, however, I gain a little bit more insight. Let me show you what I’ve witnessed on this trip.

Houses come in all shapes and sizes. Some are made from brick and wood, some are made with found materials. Some have water and power, many don’t.

People setup stands on the side of the road to try to earn a living. Fruits and vegetables, tires, freshly fried fat cakes (that taste like a donut without all the sugar), and even mouti (traditional medicine) can be purchased.

A once functioning stove stands watch over a wood burning pot that fills the house with the smell of fire.

Rain and rubbish make for a bad combination especially when it rains at night and homes are flooded with water.

Sometimes people have a need to wash away the debris of the day.

4/17/11 thoughts from Connor

April 20th, 2011

Today we did 3 things: church, cheetahs, and a party at Mama Peggy’s house.

Church was 3 ½ hours long! It is nothing like at home. Church is only 45 minutes at home and way less vocal. The pastor was literally screaming into the microphone!

After church we took picture with Anthony the cheetah that stared in the movie “Duma”. It was really cool because I was taking pictures with a cheetah and he was almost laying on me at on time!

After that we went to Mama Peggy’s house for a dinner party. I ate a chocolate cake from Cakes of Africa, and it was good. We played football (soccer) with Jabulile’s son, Jabulane. It was fun.

Best part of the day: taking pictures with the cheetah.

Zip-Tied

April 19th, 2011

Saturday, April 16th part 2/2

After completing our shopping for the Sunday meal I made what I thought would be a quick stop at Clicks, a local drug store. Connor, at some point, had trimmed a toe nail too short and it was causing him trouble. Amanda who, among her many talents, is a licensed nail technician attended to Connor’s toe as best she could but clearly we needed some nippers and Neosporin to aid in the healing process.

So I ran into Clicks thinking that I had two easy items on my shopping list and that I would collect them quickly. Alas, not true. After searching the shelves and finding only the nippers I finally approached the pharmacists and asked for the South African equivalent to Neosporin. She assured me that she had something very similar and stepped away from the counter returning with Bactroban from behind the pharmacy counter.

Now at this point I have to stop you and remind you that in the state, Neosporin is one of those things that you just run into Kroger or Walgreens to grab, never having to bother a pharmacist. Well I asked the pharmacist if I could pay her for both items and she promptly told me that I had to pay up front. No problem, I thought.

Then she got out this wire box, opened the lid, dropped the Bactroban into it and

zip-tied it shut.

What the heck!

When I arrived at the checkout station the cashier promptly cut the zip tie, dumped out the contents and rang up my purchase; all this for a little tube of South African Neosporin.

Thanks to Connor’s big toe I learned a little something today.

Two by Two

April 17th, 2011

Saturday, April 16th part 1/2

Today was a low key day for Connor and Amanda, or “the kids” as I have become used to calling them since everyone seems to think that both of them are my children. For me though it was a day of errands in preparation for a dinner that we would be hosting on Sunday for the Beaded Hope ladies and their families. Despite the rain we managed to run to Cakes of Africa and Pick-N-Pay. It was much to my surprise, a day filled with new adventures (and, by now, hopefully you know how much I love an adventure).

So, let’s begin with Cakes of Africa where we ordered a cake for Sunday dinner. While driving to this first stop I learned that if we did not collect our cake promptly at 10:00am as scheduled then the cake would be sold, at a lower price, to another customer. What? Now, I’m used to being able to arrive on the DAY that I order a cake but the idea that we had to arrive exactly at 10:00 to collect our cake was simply preposterous.

Driving into the parking lot at Cakes of Africa I immediately noticed a queue (you know, a line) of people snaking out the door. In amazement I asked why the line of people, standing in the rain, waiting to get into the cake store. Seemingly, this is quite normal. (Mighty always says “seemingly” by the way. It’s very endearing.).

When people want a cake they are willing to stand in a QUEUE in the RAIN to collect it at EXACTLY the scheduled time.

When I stepped into the bakery I began to understand. In a space that was no larger than 10 feet by 15 feet was a crowd of people waiting for their cakes. No big open spaces with lots of cookies, pies and other sweets to select for yourself like we have in America. Even in France and Portugal you can at least step up to the bakery case, take a look at the options and make a selection without queues or rain.

Once it was our turn we stepped up to the iron bars (where all the cakes were stashed far from reach) and told them that we had an order waiting. Yes iron bars, behind which there were at least 30 employees frantically frosting and decorating stacks (literally) of cakes.

Prompt collection times, queues and iron bars were certainly not my expectation for a bakery in South Africa, or anywhere for that matter.

Next we went to Pick-N-Pay, one of the local grocery stores, to get the bulk of the supplies for dinner. When planning for this meal I had requested that a few traditional dishes be included on the menu. Specifically, I want creamed spinach and pumpkin, two common, and yummy, vegetables that are often included in a South African meal.

Fortunately, as expected, our grocery store portion of our adventure began in the produce department. What I did not expect was for this white squash to be considered a pumpkin.

As always, I asked the obvious question; why is South African squash short, dumpy and white while ours is plump, round and orange? Seemingly there are many versions of “pumpkin”, some white, some green, some smooth, and some bumpy. However! There is also the butternut squash and it is always butternut squash. Confused? Me too. But just wait.

I also love South African creamed spinach so much that I added it to the menu. Much to my surprise this is what was put in the trolley (shopping cart).

Now I admit that I should have put something in this picture to give you a little perspective but trust me when I tell you that these spinach leaves were HUGE. I’m talking twice the size of leaves of romaine lettuce. So, once again, I asked the obvious question. And, once again, I was told that there are many things that are considered “spinach” in South Africa. Hmmm. I’m sensing a trend.

Two shopping carts, two hours and two trends later we completed our task of purchasing all the food for our Sunday meal while leaving me in utter confusion.

Qhawe lamaqhawe

April 17th, 2011

4/17/11

We woke up at 630 today and left at 8 for church. And when we got to church around 9, everything was in full session. Worship and prayer. I even joined in on what I believe to be Zulu worship songs.. they had lines like ”Qhawe Lamaqhawe” which essentially means warrior and “Makabongwe”.. which I can’t figure out just yet. Church got out at noon. Yes.

But let me give you the sermon notes, so you can see what a church around the world studies weekly:

Five different kinds of lies:

Cruel lie–motivation: anger, revenge.

Protective lie–motivation: fear: protect yourself, avoid consequences/punishment/embarrassment.

Covering up lie–motivation: insecurity: to impress people, boost self esteem, exaggeration.

Calculated lie–motivation: selfishness: get way through lies, people who love money, flatterers (the worst kind of traitors: praise you without meaning it, to gain your affection).

Convenient lie–motivation: laziness: avoiding involvment

Three ways to tell the truth:

Tell it completely. Someone who doesn’t tell the truth causes trouble. Or you undermine your relationships. “Don’t tell me what I think, tell me what you feel and completely.” Prov 28:23 NLT –”In the end people appreciate frankness more than flattery.” “So let’s tell the truth, amen?” “Lift your hand up and say Lord, I will tell the truth!”

Tell the truth lovingly. Eph 4:29 (GN): “Speak only what is helpful for building others up, according to their needs, that it may benefit those who hear.” Truth stinks. If you don’t tell it lovingly, people will interpret it as an attack. Avoid saying” “You never do this!” “You always do that!” “Always you are like this!” “Always you useless!”

Tell the truth tactfully. Proverbs 12:18 “Sharp words cut like a sword, but words of wisdom heal.” You have an option. How to tell the truth. “I can break, I can hurt, I can heal with words.” ”Plan your presentation. Contemplate, think it over, how am I-um-going to tell it.” Think before your mouth says it. “Because sometimes our mouth goes before our thinking.” “Timing is everything in solving any problem.” “There is a right way and a right time for everything.”  “And never say behind backs, go to your brother and sister and say it.”

“Let’s be real friends. You can help make me a better person, a better pastor.”

~~Pastor Titus spoke in English and Pastor Julius translated.

Bonus pic of the day: Connor and Ameha (yeah coolest name ever) arm-wrestling after church

Beautiful Red

April 16th, 2011

On my first trip to South Africa it was winter (July/August). To keep my feet warm during church I packed my favorite pair of dress boots. Those boots went to church on Sunday but they also went to a traditional South African funeral where I stood in the red African dirt and listened to the rise and the fall of the beautiful South African voices and they sang songs of worship and praise.

Returning home I found myself wistfully thinking of South Africa every time I put on those boots and found another speck of red dirt.

On Friday, after our trek to find the roaring lions, I showed Connor and Amanda the beauty of the South African dirt. They picked it up. They squeezed it. They rubbed it on their hands. And then they threw it into the air. Ahhh. Beautiful.

4/16/11 evening thoughts from Connor

April 16th, 2011

Well, today I did not go to Makro and the lions have started again. Well our day was almost nothing as planned. First, we didn’t go to Makro. Second, we did not go on the game drive because it has been raining for 24 hours and my mom did not think we would get good pictures. Instead of the game drive we went to the South Africa mall, called Menlyn, and we almost bought a tape recorder because we thought that it was $38 but it was a very good tape recorder and it was actually $380. I was sad. I wanted to do voice recordings with the tape recorder so that I could record stories that people tell us.

We also went to the Baobab restaurant. The baobab tree looks like the roots are in the air instead of the ground. At the restaurant we ordered dishes that sounded small but they were actually very large.

The African Baobab tree is awesome

When we were driving home from the mall I saw two giraffes.

Even though the day didn’t go as planned it was still pretty awesome.

Sight of the day: I’ve never seen giraffes before, but when we were coming back to our hotel I miraculously saw them.


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