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4/17/11 thoughts from Connor

Wednesday, April 20th, 2011

Today we did 3 things: church, cheetahs, and a party at Mama Peggy’s house.

Church was 3 ½ hours long! It is nothing like at home. Church is only 45 minutes at home and way less vocal. The pastor was literally screaming into the microphone!

After church we took picture with Anthony the cheetah that stared in the movie “Duma”. It was really cool because I was taking pictures with a cheetah and he was almost laying on me at on time!

After that we went to Mama Peggy’s house for a dinner party. I ate a chocolate cake from Cakes of Africa, and it was good. We played football (soccer) with Jabulile’s son, Jabulane. It was fun.

Best part of the day: taking pictures with the cheetah.

Zip-Tied

Tuesday, April 19th, 2011

Saturday, April 16th part 2/2

After completing our shopping for the Sunday meal I made what I thought would be a quick stop at Clicks, a local drug store. Connor, at some point, had trimmed a toe nail too short and it was causing him trouble. Amanda who, among her many talents, is a licensed nail technician attended to Connor’s toe as best she could but clearly we needed some nippers and Neosporin to aid in the healing process.

So I ran into Clicks thinking that I had two easy items on my shopping list and that I would collect them quickly. Alas, not true. After searching the shelves and finding only the nippers I finally approached the pharmacists and asked for the South African equivalent to Neosporin. She assured me that she had something very similar and stepped away from the counter returning with Bactroban from behind the pharmacy counter.

Now at this point I have to stop you and remind you that in the state, Neosporin is one of those things that you just run into Kroger or Walgreens to grab, never having to bother a pharmacist. Well I asked the pharmacist if I could pay her for both items and she promptly told me that I had to pay up front. No problem, I thought.

Then she got out this wire box, opened the lid, dropped the Bactroban into it and

zip-tied it shut.

What the heck!

When I arrived at the checkout station the cashier promptly cut the zip tie, dumped out the contents and rang up my purchase; all this for a little tube of South African Neosporin.

Thanks to Connor’s big toe I learned a little something today.

Two by Two

Sunday, April 17th, 2011

Saturday, April 16th part 1/2

Today was a low key day for Connor and Amanda, or “the kids” as I have become used to calling them since everyone seems to think that both of them are my children. For me though it was a day of errands in preparation for a dinner that we would be hosting on Sunday for the Beaded Hope ladies and their families. Despite the rain we managed to run to Cakes of Africa and Pick-N-Pay. It was much to my surprise, a day filled with new adventures (and, by now, hopefully you know how much I love an adventure).

So, let’s begin with Cakes of Africa where we ordered a cake for Sunday dinner. While driving to this first stop I learned that if we did not collect our cake promptly at 10:00am as scheduled then the cake would be sold, at a lower price, to another customer. What? Now, I’m used to being able to arrive on the DAY that I order a cake but the idea that we had to arrive exactly at 10:00 to collect our cake was simply preposterous.

Driving into the parking lot at Cakes of Africa I immediately noticed a queue (you know, a line) of people snaking out the door. In amazement I asked why the line of people, standing in the rain, waiting to get into the cake store. Seemingly, this is quite normal. (Mighty always says “seemingly” by the way. It’s very endearing.).

When people want a cake they are willing to stand in a QUEUE in the RAIN to collect it at EXACTLY the scheduled time.

When I stepped into the bakery I began to understand. In a space that was no larger than 10 feet by 15 feet was a crowd of people waiting for their cakes. No big open spaces with lots of cookies, pies and other sweets to select for yourself like we have in America. Even in France and Portugal you can at least step up to the bakery case, take a look at the options and make a selection without queues or rain.

Once it was our turn we stepped up to the iron bars (where all the cakes were stashed far from reach) and told them that we had an order waiting. Yes iron bars, behind which there were at least 30 employees frantically frosting and decorating stacks (literally) of cakes.

Prompt collection times, queues and iron bars were certainly not my expectation for a bakery in South Africa, or anywhere for that matter.

Next we went to Pick-N-Pay, one of the local grocery stores, to get the bulk of the supplies for dinner. When planning for this meal I had requested that a few traditional dishes be included on the menu. Specifically, I want creamed spinach and pumpkin, two common, and yummy, vegetables that are often included in a South African meal.

Fortunately, as expected, our grocery store portion of our adventure began in the produce department. What I did not expect was for this white squash to be considered a pumpkin.

As always, I asked the obvious question; why is South African squash short, dumpy and white while ours is plump, round and orange? Seemingly there are many versions of “pumpkin”, some white, some green, some smooth, and some bumpy. However! There is also the butternut squash and it is always butternut squash. Confused? Me too. But just wait.

I also love South African creamed spinach so much that I added it to the menu. Much to my surprise this is what was put in the trolley (shopping cart).

Now I admit that I should have put something in this picture to give you a little perspective but trust me when I tell you that these spinach leaves were HUGE. I’m talking twice the size of leaves of romaine lettuce. So, once again, I asked the obvious question. And, once again, I was told that there are many things that are considered “spinach” in South Africa. Hmmm. I’m sensing a trend.

Two shopping carts, two hours and two trends later we completed our task of purchasing all the food for our Sunday meal while leaving me in utter confusion.

Qhawe lamaqhawe

Sunday, April 17th, 2011

4/17/11

We woke up at 630 today and left at 8 for church. And when we got to church around 9, everything was in full session. Worship and prayer. I even joined in on what I believe to be Zulu worship songs.. they had lines like ”Qhawe Lamaqhawe” which essentially means warrior and “Makabongwe”.. which I can’t figure out just yet. Church got out at noon. Yes.

But let me give you the sermon notes, so you can see what a church around the world studies weekly:

Five different kinds of lies:

Cruel lie–motivation: anger, revenge.

Protective lie–motivation: fear: protect yourself, avoid consequences/punishment/embarrassment.

Covering up lie–motivation: insecurity: to impress people, boost self esteem, exaggeration.

Calculated lie–motivation: selfishness: get way through lies, people who love money, flatterers (the worst kind of traitors: praise you without meaning it, to gain your affection).

Convenient lie–motivation: laziness: avoiding involvment

Three ways to tell the truth:

Tell it completely. Someone who doesn’t tell the truth causes trouble. Or you undermine your relationships. “Don’t tell me what I think, tell me what you feel and completely.” Prov 28:23 NLT –”In the end people appreciate frankness more than flattery.” “So let’s tell the truth, amen?” “Lift your hand up and say Lord, I will tell the truth!”

Tell the truth lovingly. Eph 4:29 (GN): “Speak only what is helpful for building others up, according to their needs, that it may benefit those who hear.” Truth stinks. If you don’t tell it lovingly, people will interpret it as an attack. Avoid saying” “You never do this!” “You always do that!” “Always you are like this!” “Always you useless!”

Tell the truth tactfully. Proverbs 12:18 “Sharp words cut like a sword, but words of wisdom heal.” You have an option. How to tell the truth. “I can break, I can hurt, I can heal with words.” ”Plan your presentation. Contemplate, think it over, how am I-um-going to tell it.” Think before your mouth says it. “Because sometimes our mouth goes before our thinking.” “Timing is everything in solving any problem.” “There is a right way and a right time for everything.”  “And never say behind backs, go to your brother and sister and say it.”

“Let’s be real friends. You can help make me a better person, a better pastor.”

~~Pastor Titus spoke in English and Pastor Julius translated.

Bonus pic of the day: Connor and Ameha (yeah coolest name ever) arm-wrestling after church

Beautiful Red

Saturday, April 16th, 2011

On my first trip to South Africa it was winter (July/August). To keep my feet warm during church I packed my favorite pair of dress boots. Those boots went to church on Sunday but they also went to a traditional South African funeral where I stood in the red African dirt and listened to the rise and the fall of the beautiful South African voices and they sang songs of worship and praise.

Returning home I found myself wistfully thinking of South Africa every time I put on those boots and found another speck of red dirt.

On Friday, after our trek to find the roaring lions, I showed Connor and Amanda the beauty of the South African dirt. They picked it up. They squeezed it. They rubbed it on their hands. And then they threw it into the air. Ahhh. Beautiful.

4/16/11 evening thoughts from Connor

Saturday, April 16th, 2011

Well, today I did not go to Makro and the lions have started again. Well our day was almost nothing as planned. First, we didn’t go to Makro. Second, we did not go on the game drive because it has been raining for 24 hours and my mom did not think we would get good pictures. Instead of the game drive we went to the South Africa mall, called Menlyn, and we almost bought a tape recorder because we thought that it was $38 but it was a very good tape recorder and it was actually $380. I was sad. I wanted to do voice recordings with the tape recorder so that I could record stories that people tell us.

We also went to the Baobab restaurant. The baobab tree looks like the roots are in the air instead of the ground. At the restaurant we ordered dishes that sounded small but they were actually very large.


The African Baobab tree is awesome

When we were driving home from the mall I saw two giraffes.

Even though the day didn’t go as planned it was still pretty awesome.

Sight of the day: I’ve never seen giraffes before, but when we were coming back to our hotel I miraculously saw them.

4/16/11 morning thoughts from Connor

Saturday, April 16th, 2011

Hey guys. Right now it is 3:00am in Ohio and I have already had breakfast, gotten dressed and have almost finished my first bottle of Coke of the day. And you’re still sleeping.

Coke is actually very sugary in South Africa and it is nothing like American Coke. If I had to choose to have only one kind of Coke I would choose South African Coke.

It rained all night last night and there was thunder. It’s still raining now.

My plan for the day is that we are going to veg out from 9:00 until noon and then we will go to Makro (the Costco of South Africa) to get food to make parcels that we will deliver to people in need in the township later on this week. It will be awesome.

After that our plan is to go on a game drive if it stops raining.

Check back tomorrow to see what actually happened because you never know when or what will change in South Africa.

Transport

Saturday, April 16th, 2011

4/16/11

Back home in America, you say, “Can I get a ride?” or “I don’t have a way to get there.” But in South Africa it’s all about transport. “We have no transport.” And for most of today, we had no transport.

Jennifer left early in the morning to go shopping for our Sunday dinner for the ladies. It was a process for which Connor and I would have been useless. So we stayed home and, yes, slept in. Well, I slept in. Connor was up at 8. He went to breakfast and did things, and got completely fed up with my sleeping. I’m not sure how many times he tried to wake me, but I know he blew his vuvuzela at one point. And when I opened my eyes, he was just standing there, staring at me. Freaky. But he brought me breakfast and tea in bed. A+ Connor.

After breakfast, he spazzed around the place while I uploaded pictures onto Facebook. It rained all day, so with no transport, there was, therefore, nothing to do. Except that Connor did go outside for a bit and get attacked by the same goose who attacked me. Yes, it was a goose. I mistook it for a duck.

At four, though, Jennifer got back and discovered some limited transport. There was a shuttle, essentially a taxi, going from the Farm Inn to Menlyn—a ginormous mall with four levels. Our driver was named Solly, for Solomon, and he opened doors for us and everything. It was a bit of a change from riding in the boot (trunk) of Mighty’s car, which is the South African way to ride apparently. But here, transport is transport.

This is how everybody rides over here

4/15/11 thoughts from Connor

Friday, April 15th, 2011

Today we made beadwork with the ladies of Beaded Hope. I also made some beadwork.

I also went to the orphanage to play soccer with the orphans. Apparently I am a good goal keeper (goalie).

me as goal keeper

my opponent Ameha

We also saw an African unicorn (they are real)…see Amanda’s post for a pic of the African unicorn.

We also went to hear the tigers and lions. They were loud and awesome.

Four best things of the day:

1)      Beadwork

2)      Football (soccer)

3)      African unicorn

4)      Lions/tigers

A multimedia presentation…

Friday, April 15th, 2011

4/15/11
Seedbeads. Today was all about seedbeads. Betty, one of the Beaded Hope ladies, taught Connor how to bead a necklace. Well that necklace turned into a bracelet that he gave me for my tiny hands, but it was beautiful. And then Connor turned around and taught me! And I even picked out the color pattern for a Beaded Hope line. If you see the yellow, purple, blue set, then know that was my doing!

Mmatshabalala is another Beaded Hope lady, and she’s super talented. She speaks Zulu I believe, so we have to have a translator with us. But anyway, today’s workshop was all about karakatana beads. They are these tiny little nuts, and the word “karakatana” means something like tooth nut. Mums would put strands of these nuts around their babies’ necks while they were teething. They’re basically ancient teething rings… and they make beautiful jewelry.

Mmatshabalala's work with the karakatana beads

After I finished my own bead work (that’s right, I got artsy), I caught up with Connor as he played football (soccer) with the kids from the orphanage on site. And I took pictures of everything. This is Lindiwe… and she’s gorgeous. (that’s also Connor’s bracelet he made me!)

she always tells me "You are beautiful" and I tell her "Nono, YOU are beautiful!"

And after being chased around for my camera by picture-loving kids, we drove back to the Farm Inn. And found this creature:

Yeah. What?

We decided that he is an Afriunicorn.

And then… we went to investigate the lions. This is the soundtrack to nights here:

Lions and tigers, oh my!

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